Friday, October 17, 2008

Which lane are you on?


One day, like every other day when driving to work, the jam was stressing me out of my wits. Luckily I had the new camera on me..and I started snapping away. Oh, how I wish I was driving on the opposite direction!
To all you lucky folks out there who doesn't have to go through this 5 days a week, I ENVY YOU!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Oh Bali!


Counting the days to set foot on you again....

Friday, October 10, 2008

Snakes and Ladders

In my current organisation, it has been repeatedly harped that promotion and bonuses will only be granted upon consideration of additional scope and scale of responsibilities, wider contribution to the organisation and excellence in the relevant sphere of reponsibilities. I find myself to be in a strategic position, or some people might call it as lucky, with regard to this.

I have come to believe that on top of these criterias, one element must also be present - being at the right place at the right time, even if you didn't expect it to be. Knowing The Gap in the management's strength can boost your career chart. I've heard people say that success depends on how many people you know in higher management and how well you kiss their a$s. To a certain extent, this is true. But what I truly, deeply believe is that if you do your job honestly, maintain a cordial and necessary PR with your superiors and show them your integrity as a decent, alert and ambitious person (and of course knowing where is The Gap) you will get noticed. Naturally.

Of course, you can't always clam down other people's friggin gobs, unfairly accusing you of brown-nosing. So be mature, and don't jump the gun by doing anything damaging to your reputation. Save that sarcastic - if not profanity-filled reply e-mail in your 'draft' for a few hours, and read it back later. By then you should be able to assess whether your reaction is more personal rather than professional. I normally take a few deep breaths (at times, in God's solace) in order to maintain my sanity and restore my judgment. At the end of the day, trust the person in you and have faith in the Powers Above. It is not easy, so don't complicate it further.

Let's try to stay on our tracks.

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Family Ties

Here's a blog dedicated by Pak Lang to, for better or for worse; my dear big (and very 'kecoh' :-)) family.

Thanks Pak Lang, for starting this.

http://amiromar.wordpress.com/

Friday, October 03, 2008

Parents Give Up Youths Under Law Meant for Babies

Blame it on poor economic condition? or just parental irresponsibility?

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http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/03/us/03omaha.html?_r=1&hp=&oref=slogin&pagewanted=all

"In July, Nebraska became the last state to enact a so-called safe-haven law. Such laws permit mothers to leave an infant at a facility with no fear of prosecution. Nationwide, more than 2,000 babies have been turned over since Texas enacted the first such law in 1999, according to the National Safe Haven Alliance in Virginia.

But Nebraska’s version was far broader than all others, protecting not just infants but also children up to age 19."

"The abandonments began on Sept. 1, when a mother left her 14-year-old son in a police station here.

By Sept. 23, two more boys and one girl, ages 11 to 14, had been abandoned in hospitals in Omaha and Lincoln. Then a 15-year-old boy and an 11-year-old girl were left.
The biggest shock to public officials came last week, when a single father walked into an Omaha hospital and surrendered nine of his 10 children, ages 1 to 17, saying that his wife had died and he could no longer cope with the burden of raising them.

In total last month, 15 older children in Nebraska were dropped off by a beleaguered parent or custodial aunt or grandmother who said the children were unmanageable.
Officials have called the abandonments a misuse of a new law that was mainly intended to prevent so-called Dumpster babies — the abandonment of newborns by young, terrified mothers — but instead has been used to hand off out-of-control teenagers or, in the case of the father of 10, to escape financial and personal despair."

Ingat, Jimat, Cermat, Hemat

....wise words imparted on me this Raya by my grandfather while handing out 'duit raya' to me. (I know I'm too old for that, but hey, even my parents got duit raya from him this year! We love you Atok!)

Those exact four words would be my new mantra in achieving financial independence.

Should be. Can be. Can hopefully be. :-)

Well, good luck to me!